Summary · 摘要
On her podcast The Trouble with Sex, sex and relationship therapist Dr. Tammy Nelson talks with physician and author Dr. Gabor Maté, recording amid the devastating Los Angeles fires. The conversation centers on how the emotional wounds we carry from childhood do not stay in the past but shape our adult lives — flowing into the families we build, the partnerships we form, and our intimate and sexual relationships.
Maté brings the lens he is known for: that early experience and unmet emotional needs leave lasting marks, and that understanding those roots is part of how people heal. The episode applies that framework specifically to love, sex, and relationship, the territory Dr. Nelson’s show explores.
在播客《The Trouble with Sex》中，性与关系治疗师塔米·尼尔森博士与医生兼作家加博尔·马泰博士对谈；录制之时，洛杉矶正遭遇毁灭性的山火。对话聚焦于：我们从童年带来的情感创伤并不会停留在过去，而是塑造着我们的成年生活——渗入我们组建的家庭、建立的伴侣关系，以及亲密与性关系之中。
马泰带来了他为人所熟知的视角：早年经历与未被满足的情感需求会留下持久的印记，而理解这些根源正是人们走向疗愈的一部分。本期节目将这一框架具体应用于尼尔森博士节目所探讨的领域——爱、性与关系。
Key points · 要点
- Childhood wounding does not stay contained in childhood; it carries forward into the families, relationships, and sex lives we have as adults.童年的创伤不会被封存在童年；它会延续到我们成年后的家庭、关系与性生活之中。
- The episode pairs Maté’s trauma-and-development framework with the relationship-and-intimacy focus of Dr. Tammy Nelson’s work, applying it directly to love and sex.本期将马泰的创伤与发展框架，与塔米·尼尔森博士所专注的关系与亲密议题相结合，直接应用于爱与性。
- The conversation was recorded amid the devastating Los Angeles fires, a backdrop the host notes at the outset.对话录制于洛杉矶毁灭性山火期间，主持人在开场即提到了这一背景。
- Maté is a retired physician whose two decades of family practice and palliative care, plus over a decade working with addiction and mental illness in Vancouver’s Downtown East Side, inform his view of trauma and health.马泰是一位退休医生，二十年的家庭医疗与临终关怀经历，加上十余年在温哥华市中心东区与成瘾及精神疾病患者打交道的工作，塑造了他对创伤与健康的看法。
- He is the bestselling author of five books published in 43 languages, including In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts on addiction and the more recent The Myth of Normal.他是畅销书作家，著有五部以 43 种语言出版的作品，包括论成瘾的《在饿鬼的领域》（In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts）与较近期的《正常的神话》（The Myth of Normal）。
- His work has been recognized with the Order of Canada, his country’s highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown of Vancouver.他的工作曾获加拿大勋章（该国最高平民荣誉）以及来自其家乡温哥华的市民荣誉奖（Civic Merit Award）。
Selected quotes · 摘引
No verbatim transcript available — no quotes. · 无逐字稿，故不摘引。
People & works · 人物与著作
- Gabor Maté — retired physician and bestselling author; guest, discussing how childhood wounding shapes families, relationships, and sex lives.加博尔·马泰 —— 退休医生与畅销书作家；本期嘉宾，谈论童年创伤如何塑造家庭、关系与性生活。
- Tammy Nelson — sex and relationship therapist; host of The Trouble with Sex, in conversation with Maté.塔米·尼尔森 —— 性与关系治疗师；《The Trouble with Sex》节目主持人，与马泰对谈。
- The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture — Maté’s latest book, a New York Times and Canadian bestseller.《正常的神话：有毒文化中的创伤、疾病与疗愈》 —— 马泰的最新著作，《纽约时报》及加拿大畅销书。
- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction — Maté’s award-winning book on addiction.《在饿鬼的领域：与成瘾的近距离接触》 —— 马泰关于成瘾的获奖著作。
Source · 来源
- Original · 原始链接: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gabor-mat%C3%A9-on-sex-relationships-trauma/id1453446059?i=1000684393231&uo=4
- Channel/Show · 频道/节目: The Trouble with Sex (Dr. Tammy Nelson) · published 2025-01-17